SatyaMom (original poster member #83919) posted at 1:04 PM on Saturday, December 13th, 2025
My WS who recently. Told me the infidelity I thought was a "moment in time" had been occurring our whole marriage ( erotic massage, porn, strip clubs with handjobs and finally escorts) 26 yr marriage, 2 false disclosures and lying to his therapist for 2 years. We had what appeared to be a very loving, su-portice marriage - "marriage goals" people would say. He told me this is a private family matter and he prefers I not disparage him. Iām not angry, Iām clear, but I am not giving the appearance we just gave up on marriage when I was completely devoted. I told someone " it was my decision but not my actions". Close friends know the truth. This really infuriated me " private family matter" ā¦ā¦š