fareast ( Moderator #61555) posted at 12:55 AM on Thursday, September 17th, 2026
You are still so early on from your Dday
Your going to be on an emotional roller-coaster. Don't worry about being judged here. You will receive support here no matter what happens with your M. Its your life. This is a good place to vent and get feedback.
Never bother with things in your rearview mirror. Your best days are on the road in front of you.
beetrain6 (original poster new member #87705) posted at 3:14 AM on Thursday, September 17th, 2026
Hey Nuke
WW and OM’s spouse communicated more on Monday and my WW seems to feel "less bad."
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WW and OM’s spouse communicated more on Monday and my WW seems to feel "less bad."
Can you please expound on this Beetrain? Reads as if your WW feels the OBS is a b*tch and she's glad she was able to hurt the OBS, is this it or is it something else?
I think my WW felt better by letting OM's wife know that she's not a bad person, but she is. I firmly believe that she felt worse for the OM's situation than our own. But, through counseling, I kind of u/s that to a certain extent. But....she is not nearly the person I fell in love with, it's just me getting enough courage to pull the cord
beetrain6 (original poster new member #87705) posted at 9:59 PM on Sunday, September 20th, 2026
To 1994:
I have read and re-read your private message at least 20 times and I cry like a fucking baby every time. I read it to my daughter twice and she nodded through its entirety. I hate that you are right, I do. But I thank God that you wrote what you did and that you reached out. Thank you and I hope that you prosper in life and that I can in some way "pay it forward."
I also hope to have an update to post in the morning. Thank you all. This site has been a rock for me. Hugs to everyone
