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BearlyBreathing ( member #55075) posted at 3:24 AM on Wednesday, August 5th, 2026

so sad. I hope you and your son have gotten some therapy to help, You can’t save her if she doesn’t want to be saved. Glad you saved you and your son..

Me: BS 57 (49 on d-day)Him: *who cares ;-) *. D-Day 8/15/2016 LTA. Kinda liking my new life :-)

**horrible typist, lots of edits to correct. :-/ **

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The1stWife ( Guide #58832) posted at 12:44 PM on Wednesday, August 5th, 2026

Please know you did your best and did absolutely everything possible to help her.

You can see how far removed she is — she simply cannot choose anything over alcohol. She didn’t want to change or get sober — she wants to remain trapped in the dark room of addiction.

Wishing you & your family the best.

Survived two affairs and brink of Divorce. Happily reconciled. 12 years out from Dday. Reconciliation takes two committed people to be successful.

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